You GOAL, Girl!
- Admin
- Oct 24, 2021
- 2 min read
Are goals hard for you to make? Are goals hard for you to reach? For most people, goals can be a very difficult thing to make or accomplish. Believe it or not, it's really this easy to make goals if you follow these steps.
Determine What YOU Want
It's easy to be influenced by parents, friends, partners, and even professors about what you SHOULD want. Instead, focus on what YOU want. It can be anything- a type of car, living in a certain place, or a certain position/ status. Write it down. Reference the list regularly and make adjustments as needed. Highlighting your wants and making sure important aspects like your career, lifestyle, and actions are aligning with ways for you to get those wants.
See If Your Actions Are Aligning With the Goals YOU Want
If you aren't actively doing anything to help you reach this desire, you might as well kiss it goodbye! This is where we lose the majority of people in the goal-reaching process. If you want something, you have to work for it! An easy way to track if you are taking the actions necessary to reach that goal is by using the same paper that you wrote all of your "wants" down on and writing what you are actively doing to reach this goal. Writing it down is more likely to encourage accountability.
Be Willing to Adjust Your Goals If Necessary
This is the part that never fails to crumble my ego. Having to realize a certain goal isn't feasible or relevant can make you feel like you aren't good enough. News flash: you are good enough, you are just HUMAN! We are constantly growing and changing, so sometimes it makes sense to stop going after certain goals. Sometimes you will have to adjust the timing, the subject, the goal itself, or the situation to achieve this goal. Other times you will have to make the tough decision to part ways with the goal. Don't worry, you GOAL girl!
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